Regular text is Ms.Sarah “Speaking up”. Bolded text is a response to her post.
If you’re a new reader to my blog, please see my posts on April 17 for an introduction to myself, and the purpose of my writing.
Alanis Morissette wrote a great song called, ‘Isn’t it Ironic?’.
Isn’t it ironic that the cyberbullies who’ve been harassing me, and the websites where it’s been allowed it to happen the most, are now the ones largely responsible for spreading my blog link?
Blatant lie #1: The truth is that Sarah posted it in her signature line on at least two sites that we know of, plus as a post on the getsomesuga site, as well as heavily promoting it herself on those sites. Her victims however, once they were aware of this blog, informed others who may end up suffering for having their own posts/comments done in private messages, emails and/or private forum posting revealed to the general public.
That Sarah boasts and gloats about what she has done, and continues to deny the damage she has done to these victims is pathological.
I deliberately didn’t post the link on my personal website or in my ads, because no potential client is interested in the ‘drama’.
See #1, this is a blatant lie. She had it in her signature on various sites, the same sites she posts ads on. If potential clients wouldn’t be interested in the drama, then why promote it in her obviously advertising posts on these sites?
From looking at my blog Stats page, I can tell which sites and threads have directed the most traffic to my blog.
I can even tell which sites have transmitted the blog link by Private Message.
Well, this isn’t stalkerish at all. She makes this claim, but fails to say what sites, and where the pms were occuring and we are supposed to just take her word for it. because so far she’s been so honest about everything?
Even more fascinating to see the women who are guilty of cyberbullying me using my blog in their own defense! They are so blind to their own criminal behaviour, that they still can’t recognize their own mistakes when confronted with a written record of their exact words. I purposely haven’t edited spelling or grammatical errors, and what you see posted here is exactly how it appeared when they originally wrote it.
She provides no proof that any of her victims are using the blog in their own defense. She also fails to notice that in all her accusations about defamation, she is still unable to recognize the difference between the truth and defamation. She has posted pretending to be a victim, and gets called out about it. She has been exposed as to the hateful emails and private messages she sends, filled with hate and libelous accusations. She still thinks these victims should just roll over and accept it. She has no proof, in spite of copying and pasting private messages, emails, and private forum content, and yet she is using that to defend her own actions?
In their comments about me over the last 6 months, all they’ve able to do is regurgitate the same lies they’ve been posting for 2 years, and you’ll notice that they have nothing recent to quote proving I’m bullying them or instigating drama – because there is nothing.
She pretends to be a victim, and her real victims got fed up, especially when it was clear she was stalking them, following them from site to site, and trying to use the back channels to undermine their reputations on those sites, and her victims stood up and told her, flat out, they weren’t going to be bullied by her anymore. She has an issue with the fact they stood up to her publicly, all of their posts and comments were completely true, but because she found them to be unflattering to the image she put out in public, she calls it defamation. Again, redefining the word defamation doesn’t mean that what was said about her was untrue. All of the comments were supported with posts by other victims, as well as posts in her own words. Is she now denying the things she said and did?
Even if no one believed my original allegations of bullying and harassment by these women, when you compare their behaviour over the last 6 months with mine, it’s crystal clear who the bullies are – and it’s not me.
You cannot possibly compare victims standing up to more stalking and victimization by their attacker with what happened before. When first accused by Sarah, the victims had done nothing against her at all. When first accused, they didn’t even fight back they chose to go a legal route and thru arbitration/investigation . When they were cleared of any wrong doing, they continued to keep on the high road. However, over time, it became clear that in spite of the evidence, the reports, the investigation, in spite of being contacted by LE on their behalf, their bully wasn’t letting it go. She had a taste for blood and she wasnt’ going to allow them to carry on with their lives, and stop making false accusations about them. She carried on, she did more, and her efforts ended up getting her banned from bcaf, CAF and vancityads, and threads deleted from erslist as well. She was removed from erslist LL this time, and in retaliation, all the posts she had copied were sent to review site admin
Except this time she could hardly claims she ‘didn’t know’ that copying and sharing LL content was against the rules.
I have no x-rays of broken bones or pictures of cuts and bruises inflicted by the bullies that I can post.
What I can do however, is publish the words they’ve written with the deliberate malicious intent to harm me. It’s the consistent organized pattern of obvious malicious intent that makes it a matter of criminal harassment and not just a civil one.
She can say ‘malicious intent’ as many times as she likes, but it won’t make it true. what has been posted is the truth about sarah, that her claims were investigated, and proven to be untrue, in fact deliberate lies, about the victims she continues to victimize in her blog. Adding to the original 4, as others speak up, the backlash is brutal. She has added smilf, susi, vancouverman, Van Wilder and most recently Vanessa White to her list of victims. She harasses, stalks, spreads malicious lies and sends nasty emails, pms and posts to and about them. It is another lie to say this is criminal harassment, since there is absolutely nothing from before or now that could possibly qualify.
In fact, the original victims sought advice from Linda Malcolm who confirmed that Sarah’s actions against them constituted defamation/harassment, but at the civil level. it was not a criminal matter. Something that Sarah would know if she really had filed a report with RCMP about her victims. Something else that has been confirmed, with the RCMP, as a blatant lie. NO reports have been made against any of the people named by Sarah, that she claims to have made.
Further to this she has copied private forum posts, as well as emails and private messages. Not one of the comments posted in this way were ever meant for a public audience, therefore most definitely could not or would not qualify to be defamatory or malicious intent, since there was no public audience for any comments. not to mention, just reading the posts, pms and emails, any right minded individual can clearly see there are no attacks, no defamatory remarks, only solid facts backed up with evidence, and links to the evidence.
I’m still working on writing the book about my story and if the new legislation governing our industry comes out soon enough, I’ll be able to include whatever that looks like, into the ending.
I was looking over my files the other day and realized that I’ve been able to report Batman57’s handles, PM’s and posts more than 20 times on at least 6 industry forums over the last year alone. Imagine if we had hundreds of people across the country helping to report trolls like him!
I’ve recently had to back off from participating on most forums because the stress of the ongoing harassment is too much for my heart to handle these days. I still browse most of the forums to watch for trolls at least once a day, but can’t read or write as much as I used to.
I really doubt that she has any ongoing harassment. By paying for advertising on sp411, and establishing a reputation on caerf, and by paying off the perb admin/moderators by supplying the erslist LL private info, she has secured herself safety from anyone ever being able to continue to post the truth about her. Basically, she has gotten what she wanted to get: the attention of the mods, and their complicity in allowing her to continue to harass and defame her victims. It is a sad site indeed that allows the victim to be blamed, but not a surprise. The one saving grace tho is that the moderators of sp411 confirm more than once that they know what she has really done, and are ‘aware’, meaning that she isn’t getting away with as much as she thinks she does.
It’s also affected my ability to do my Massage work, and I’ve had to turn down many clients due to not feeling well. I imagine I’ve lost a considerable amount of income over the last couple of years from having to take time off due to the physcial and psychological effects of the cyberbullying, along with time I had to dedicate to dealing with legal and medical issues.
Yes, and what about Sarah’s victims who were falsely accused and ended up being banned from being able to advertise and post on the sites that they had earned well deserved good reputations? What about all the other sps who were victims when their erslist LL black list forum was shut down, due to the controversy when Sarah maliciously sent information to erslist’s main promotional site?
Even though my business has remained steadily busy throughout my ordeal, I’m sure the nationwide defamation and negative publicity spread by the bullies has also impacted my reputation and potential earnings.
In light of my health situation, I’ve added a blurb regarding making a Donation to help support the work I’m doing online, at the bottom of the blog page.