The only women who are afraid of me are you and your buddies and the few ladies you’ve turned against me. The many women who PM and email me, thanking me for speaking up, for posting legal info, and for giving them hope, aren’t afraid of me.
3. She has all the EVIDENCE PROVING that I am the victim, not you. I am not totally innocent but I’ve already admitted and apologized for my part repeatedly.
4. Linda was the one that suggested I research and publish helpful legal info for SP’s, so it’s unwise for you and your buddies to oppose me when I post those threads.
5. Linda approves of my hiring a lawyer and pursuing civil litigation against the 5 SP’s I have named to my lawyer, and agrees that this is a viable alternative for SP’s who have legal issues.
6. My Dear Troll thread was addressed to all trolls in general, but the real specific troll I had in mind is a guy from Toronto that you know nothing about. I am not out for revenge, only justice for myself and many others. In case you missed my signature, the letter was signed on behalf of many other victims.
7. Do you realize the legal consequences of your recent posts, added to the evidence I already have? Do you realize your posts were full of LIES and DEFAMATORY LIBEL, statements that were made with CLEAR MALICE intended to harm me? You just gave me sufficient grounds to file a formal complaint and have you investigated by Vice, along with continuing to pursue civil litigation.
How do you think LE will view your comments publicly mocking me for admitting your prior harassment had driven me to the point of contemplating suicide? I’m way beyond that now, but if I was ever to off myself, you guys would be facing some pretty serious criminal charges. You might want to research the last couple of year’s media articles on that topic.
8. You and your little band of buddies are yesterday’s news. You’re so arrogant and self involved that you assume you’re the motive for every thread I post. Get over yourselves.
Now would be a really good time for you to consider writing an apology to me.
May God have mercy on your soul.
It’s fine for her to spread false rumors and outright lies about me everywhere, but when I call her on them, then I’m the one who is supposed to be sorry for calling a liar a liar. Fat chance. The best I was able to do along the way was counter her lies as I found them or they were brought to my attention on various sites. She made claims about how much research she put into the Resources post she was so proud of, yet could not do even the most preliminary research before posting lies everywhere about me. Such as saying I was a leader of the ladies lounge (an easy thing to disprove by anyone doing even the most preliminary queries on the subject). To surmise and assume things about me without doing even the most basic research and then posting them as facts everywhere is not my idea of someone who should be proud of her research skills. She left a big mess for all of us to clean up and continues to do so. It is like having a two year old loose on the fair ground indefinitely and if I told her to F off in the shout box when she jumped into my convo with someone, who would blame me if they knew what lies she had spread about me on so many sites for so long.To this day, I have no way of knowing exactly what it was that I was supposed to have seen that would rise to the level of bullying. Her lame attempts to blame me for everything she thought was wrong with conflicts she had with others in the vca LL are just ridiculous and without merit of any kind. To trash my handle in her Bully post as she did based on supposition and assumptions was completely irresponsible and inexcusable. Her announcement that she “agonized” over doing so was nothing more than an absolute insult to the intelligence of anyone reading the nonsense she ultimately posted. Clearly I was not about to go round changing handles I had on other sites so that people could “stick up” for me. My reputation as a responsible poster was not that easily tarnished that some silly person like her could convince people that I had suddenly become a bully overnight. For those who didn’t know me or my reputation, it was a concern and I did make every attempt to post the truth when the men were repeating lies they’d been told. But few sites would permit further discussion on the matter and were banning handles and IP addresses of anyone trying to enlighten them. My handle on bcaf was banned when attempts were made to post the truth. What handle is used to clear up the lies should not matter so long as the truth being posted can be verified (which it easily could have). But a major issue was made about who was behind the handle doing the posting when it is the truth that should matter, not who posts it. Nothing I posted was rude or ban worthy, but the fact that I was countering the lies that had been told to people there was enough to result in an IP ban. Since that handle was used in the above “apology” to me, clearly she knew who was doing the posting and resented having me around to clear up some of the nasty rumours that, until I showed up on bcaf, were being believed by many.
My post #27 in the lunch thread on vca which follows is proof of what I posted. Ms. Sarah’s name was not mentioned. There were various posts in the thread, none of which match what Sarah has been claiming, not even her own.
[quote]I won’t be attending this get together, but so far they have all been a joyful time for everyone and hope this one is the same.[/quote]
I most certainly did not go around telling anyone not to attend. However, a number of ladies contacted me regarding a particularly vile post Ms. Sarah did on Perb to another lady which was an unprovoked attack. The comment was very rude and insulting and caused many, myself included, to have no interest in socializing with anyone who would do a post like that to someone to demean and insult. If that post had an effect on how many attended the vca lunch, it would not surprise me. The post was promptly removed by the Perb admin, but the damage was done and few wanted to be in the same room with Sarah after that.
Instead of acknowledging her own part in the lack of attendance at the lunch, Sarah started claiming I was telling people not to attend because she would be there. A complete lie to cover up the fact that she herself caused people to shun her. She was becoming known for unprovoked attacks, but this particular one came just prior to the lunch that was scheduled to take place. Many saw the post before it was removed and were very offended by it even tho it was directed at someone else.
The Conflict Resolutions document was posted in the Perb Announcements section and the matter should have been put to rest. A Peace Bond would not be necessary although it was something being considered at the time the Bully post appeared on two review sites. A complete report was given by all named parties in the Bully post to Linda Malcom who did visit Ms. Sarah. No one has ever to my knowledge claimed that a Peace Bond was served, but we have discussed it publicly questioning whether or not anyone knew for sure if it was or not.
After the Conflict Resolutions document was posted, and the visit by Linda Malcolm, Sarah continued to push the boundaries. She posted the Resources document anywhere she could and further annoying those falsely accused because it was presented by the very person who had caused so many to spend so much time countering her lies for so many months on so many different sites. The fact that she continued to post as if she was the wronged party only aggravated those she had falsely accused even more. It did get removed from the VCA site and she was ultimately banned thanks largely to her own posts trashing VCA and the owner.
And the reader should know, the only thing her victims have ever asked for, and this is in the CR document as well, is a public post showing their innocence, and a public apology and retraction by Sarah. And this is what we’ve gotten from her: continued and persistent harassment, defamation, lies, libel and continuously pretending to be a victim of others. No accountability, no responsibility, no remorse, and no apology. So far all we’ve seen are more accusations and insults disguised as an apology: