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Kinda wish it did not have to come to this but everybody needs a place where they can vent. If you want to vent about Sarah, please do it here!!

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21 thoughts on “Your Comments

  1. Sarah, what makes you so special? Oh I know. Taking screenshots from the private ladies lounge and sharing them with clients and other men. We all know that is the reason you had the ERS LL closed. It affected more that just those you oppose, it affected everyone else who used the lounge to stay safe.

  2. I was contacted in a private message on perb. It wasn’t Sarah’s name but it was about Sarah’s blog, so I assumed it was from her. Now I got a PM about this, i Just thought I would see what this blog was all about.

    • She was ignored for over a year, all she did was stalk her victims and find new ones. It is time for others to stop being afraid of her backlash and venom, and speak up publicly as well. The paid advertisers of perb deserve to be rid of her, speak up against having her there and what she has done, otherwise you might be her next victim.

  3. Well, I have a bone to pick with Sarah. She has no problem being the antagonist and upsetting others with her passive aggressive on line behaviour both behind the scense and in forums. Prime example: How she tears up Susie then is the first to repsond to her posts on PERB. How intimidating is that? What is Sarah trying to prove?

  4. She decided what part of the rules of LLs she wanted to follow, and what she didn’t. She claims she didn’t know it was against the rules to share LL info, then denies sharing it. No one got access to the VCA LL without being fully informed of the rules.

    • In fact, in April 2011, Sarah signed in a VCA LL thread that she read and understood the rules laid out by admin, that fully explained what was expected of her, including that what goes on in the sp lounge stays in the sp lounge, no exceptions.

      Coming back months later and pretending she never knew is yet another blatant lie.

  5. She claims cuteangie was being blackmailed, and implied it was a group of specific sps to blame. When in fact the only blackmail cuteangie ever complained about was when sarah tried to blackmail some of her clients to lie for her. To this day, cuteangie denies ever being blackmailed by anyone on this matter. in fact over a year and a half ago, before the forum on erslist was shut down, was asking for advice on how to report Sarah for harassment.

  6. Angie here retired, I have never been blackmailed, Sarah has contacted clients thinking they could get me to say something for her., on her behalf. Our email and pm exchanges for her investigation she had no proof. She would expose me as a liar and post all if I did not. A few hours later she did post all in a ladies lounge. It was me supporting her until I put things together than over and over asked to be left out. My pms and emails did nothing by the way to prove her right they had nothing to do with it was found about her accusations. Retired pretty much now asked to be taken off perb finally I am, trying to get off CAF and BCAF, I am on VCA all pics and info removed. I am going on in life. Sarha lies and has made things bigger than they are. She has done this to herself. I hope that this ends soon, I am so sorry susi and all ladies have to deal with this, Sarah I hope she can wake up and see what she has done ruining people. As for her life again she has done it to her self and causes her own grief as she is not mentally stable and delusional and is living in her world. Her heart condition perhaps stop and relax is what she needs to do. I was in hospital a few months back first few days not sure if my heart was strong enough I almost died it was serious and scary here I am happy as always and positive. Do not judge someone until you have walked in there shoes. Best of luck I support the ladies bottom line would like to see Sarah get professional help Mental Health.

  7. I think it was Sarah who sold the Solange/ Jay Z fight tape. She is the type to doing something JUST like that.LOL

  8. ok I have always asked Sarah and the other ladies to keep me out of this. I wish no grief on anyone. I am busy, I have a family. I do have one of the messages sent to a client of mine from Sarah. Sarah does not know this man and has never met him or spoken to him until November 24, 2012 and then never again. I will organize what I have to prove her wrong. I am busy with work and school and do not have much time or any actually to be posting. But what I see is just wrong. So more to come by next week or so I am busy and best get back to studies. Oh I also asked sarah to take me out of her blog. I am still in there. I will post what I have Susi can contact me if needed and that will be all I am too busy but yes justice has to be heard. Past is the past let it go.

  9. From Ms Sarah Speaks up Blog. There are always 2 sides to a story and if I am mentioned in any even though retired and it is not hurting me, I am not and far from a bad and sad story for Sarah. Sarah I do not dislike you I know you are reading this. I just think you need to say sorry publically and admit your wrongs. Sarahs are bolded in black my comments to this in red. You are causing yourself grief and others and this would not last a day in court. You have mixed so many things up and twisted it around putting words in others mouth and only your side. I know you will copy this by all means do if you wish, I am not a bully and I am not bully anyone. I like honesty your blog is how you see things and full of untruths that I know of.

    By this time, I already knew exactly why Tara refused to attend the lunch and that she was discouraging others from attending. I guess she missed the obvious sarcasm in my post. I have an email from Angie telling me that the remainder of the lunch plans had to be made and kept in secret due to the harassment and intimidation of Tara and the other bullies.

    OK you are assuming that you knew why Tara refused the lunch. You know unless she had a ride from downtown she could never make the trip anyways. Please Sarah show us this email, you are assuming again, did I ever say I am going to keep it private due to harassment and humiliation. I still have that email as well. And I do not think Tara and others are bullies, nor have I ever said they were. Another example she is in her own world.

    In early October of 2012 I had PM’d Van Wilder, the Admin of vca, asking for his help in resolving the escalating situation with the women on his site and got no reply. He finally replied on October 23, 2012 trying to pressure me to attend the vca social event being hosted by Angie the next day.

    He also called and talked to me about the bullies, pressuring me again to attend the social. I still have his phone number to prove that he gave it to me. I refused to attend the lunch because I was very stressed from the harassment, and honestly afraid to meet people who hated me so much, in person. I was also afraid of having my picture taken and my face and identity being outed online.

    Did Angie say she was harassed and intimidated. N0 she did not and no she did not feel that way. You are twisting stories here. That is not true. Correct me if I am wrong but she wanted it private so no one knows the plans not even you. And Angie stated no real names or pictures and cameras allowed as all parties are that way and there are many to vouch that that is how they run. It is posted right in the messages and threads and private pms she has posted on her blog.

    During this phone conversation he also offered me the position of Moderator in the vca private SP forum, but I refused.

    LOL, Sarah this is total here say and your word again posted and your mind. Now if you had recorded conversation ok. But then that could get you in a real big mess. Hear say is what it is.
    (Sorry bold and red did not dhow up)

  10. What is funny are the socalled Anonymous comments/questions she keeps posting, so she can reply.

    One big lie is her claiming to have gone to the RCMP. She was talking about how she did that early in the year, then in a comment reply she’s now saying it was April. Fact is, she never did go, once again people do their own investigations, and research, and every time she opens her mouth she gets stuck in one of her lies.

    Linda Malcolm went all the way from downtown Vancouver to Chilliwack for the express purpose of trying to get Sarah to STOP all this BS, and that totally failed. She admits that Linda was considering a peace bond, but one assumes that Sarah made all the right noises to reassure Linda that wouldn’t be necessary. Somehow, Sarah has turned this incident into proof that she was never served with a peace bond, while sweeping under the rug that fact that Linda came out to talk to her. Linda goes face to face with stalkers and criminals. She has never had a reason to visit any of Sarah’s victims, because she concluded that they ARE the victims in all this.

    How Sarah manages to twist around a visit from the police requesting her to cease her activitites into a good thing about herself is just crazy.

  11. On one of Sarah’s long posts covering emails to and from susi, she quotes a comment from the erslist LL by classysweet (changing the name as she always does to the sp name), about the comments CS made about pms being deleted. CS points out that there were no pms to delete, outside of a couple sent to Sarah about being in the VCA LL, and the only pm she ever replied to was the pm sent regarding her removal from the VCA LL. Sarah implies that CS had ‘hurt feelings’ because Sarah didn’t reply to the pms, stating ‘who does she (CS) think she is?” to send pms and expect an answer. Well, CS ‘thinks’ she is/was the group leader of the VCA LL at the time, and the very person who put Sarah into the VCA LL at the time. Acknowledging her doing this, and acceptance of the rules reminder, is just common courtesy, and in some situations, required to acknowledge the rules and conditions provided in the pm.

    • I received an email from Sarah, out of the blue when I was thinking all this is behind everyone back in 2013, not sure when but I deleted it as I thought it was going to cause her (Sarah a lot of trouble). Stating something to the affect of, “I just wanted to let you know that I have sent letters out to 5 ladies and will be charging them with the defamination and what not charges, something to that effect and not the exact words. I have left you out as I respect the work you do with disabled”. I responded to Sarah and let her know again to keep me out I thought this was done and over now, I advised her it was not a good idea. She responded back saying something to the effect of “you do not get it do you? If you give me any reason I will be putting you on the list too.”
      Honestly I do not get it, my thoughts were oh god I have never done anything to her just leave me alone and get on with life. I was angry, here I am going about my business and suddenly get this to me a threatening letter. I do have a copy of the reply back to her I believe in my emails. Just not the one she sent me. She states I know so much I know that to make sure I am not wrong in the history of the ladies I will go back on the boards and see if there is anything threatening to Sarah or anyone from the ladies, I did not find one thing, I believe I went back to 2009, seriously I did not have to do this but was giving Sarah a chance to prove me wrong. She says stuff like what goes on behind the scenes well I have no idea. I am no longer on perb and trying to get off the others except VCA, as I do have a few clients from across the border, but I am not advertising. I am as usual much too busy in my life to be bothered with all the crap. I am on a night shift and this just came to mind and thought it should be added.
      For the record I am not threatening or harassing I am just saying from my point of view no one has threatened sarah until this year with the order, we just want to get on with our lives and all to come to an end. Life is really too short for this to go on. In the REAL world I could tell Sarah she is threatening and harassing me and do have enough to lay charges on her , but I am not going to do it honestly I do not have the time. Work full time school full time and my family fulltime. Tell me when do I have the time to be causing trouble and shit and why would I. With this said back to my school work.

  12. Something about hypocrites is they always get caught in the end. what is it Sarah always says about people who use different handles on different boards? Or what about registering new handles when they’ve been banned from a site?

    Check this out:

    gumby on bcadultfun registered in May 2014, she’s been banned from bcaf for a long time

    global on canadaadultfun registered in Sept 2013, after she was banned in August 2013

    pinkfloyd on sp411 registered Sept 2014 after her 2nd handle was banned in August.

    And as recently as a month ago, was making disparaging comments about people who used different handles on different sites, as tho they are up to no good? Hmm, hypocrisy at it’s finest, again, i see.

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